Chelsie Denson

4 Months, 4 Facts, 4 Pictures!

2012-02-09T20:41:00.000-08:00

This little man is 4 months old and full of smiles! I am so thankful for my chunky monkey. I thought I would share four facts about Makai, and four of my favorite pictures for his four month update.

Fact #1: Makai weighs 17 pounds and he is 26.25 inches long. He is in the 95th percentile for his weight and 90th percentile for height. We have one big, healthy boy!!

Fact # 2: Makai has just discovered his toes. Every time he lays on his back he is constantly touching his toes and bringing them towards his face. It's the cutest thing to watch. I love milestones!

Fact # 3: Makai is sleeping 10-11 hours at night and we love it! I am so happy to have my sleep back and we are on a great schedule.

Fact # 4: Makai loves noises. Whenever we talk to Makai and make noises he smiles so big at us and it makes my heart melt.

4 Month (Favorite) Pictures:

Practicing his standing skills.

Makai at his 4 Month check up...

We love this boy more than words can say. We are so amazed at how fast he is growing. He is so awesome.

GiveAway Winner!

2012-02-07T04:05:00.000-08:00

The lucky winner of our first Adoption Giveaway is Megan! Congratulations Megan! You have just won yourself a $15 Starbucks gift card and two zebra totes that you will get embroidered anyway you like!

There were 40 items in your list. Here they are in random order:

Angela
Marcia
Megan
Baillie
Hannah
Megan
Ashton
Hannah
Angela
Hannah
Megan
Baillie
Mom......

Thank you so much to ALL who participated in this giveaway. Your donations mean so much to us and you are contributing in a huge way; in a child's life!!

Giveaway Ends Tomorrow!!

2012-02-06T05:45:00.000-08:00

Our Giveaway will be closing tomorrow and I will be announcing the winner. If you still have yet to get involved you can donate $3 to our Adoption Fund and win a $15 Starbucks gift card and these two totes that I will get embroidered for you anyway you like! You can donate through our Paypal button on my blog (look to the left). For every $3 you donate, your name will be put on a list (Example: $15 will put your name on the list 5 times). Once the giveaway ends I will use a automatic number generator to pick the lucky winner.

Remember, your donations are contributing to bringing ours future son or daughter home and it's an great opportunity for you to be a part of an amazing thing. We appreciate your support! I can't wait to find out who the lucky winner is.

P.S You can get your name entered onto the list even more by announcing our giveaway via Twitter, Facebook, or your blog. Just let me know if you do, so I can add your name again to the list. :)

Adoption Update

2012-01-30T19:50:00.000-08:00

Hello All! I have some wonderful news!

* Number one: We are almost done with our home study!!! Hallelujah! If your not familiar with what a home study is, it is a packet of paperwork that you and your husband have to complete before you can begin the adoption process (Ex. Autobiography, Financial Worksheet, Child factor Checklist etc). It's a very tedious and time consuming process but so worth it.

* Number two: We will be scheduling the first visit with a social worker within the next two weeks. After this is completed we are then eligible to be matched with a birth mother! Yay!

* Number three: We are so encouraged and amazed at the financial support that we have received over the past two weeks. God is providing for us through our friends and family and we feel so blessed. We still have a long way to go but we now are able to pay our first fee (Home Study Fee $1,500).

I have had the chance to meet with some wonderful friends, ladies, and families over the past two weeks and I have been so encouraged. God is proving more and more to us that this is his calling through the conversations that we have had with people. What a blessing!

We have started praying lately for our future child and birthmother. We have been praying that God would provide a baby for us, but also that he would heal and be the strength for our birth mother as she makes her decision. I couldn't imagine making that kind of decision, but our prayer is that God would wrap his arms around her and fill her with peace. And we know that he will.

Thank you so much for your encouragement, support, and prayers. If you would still like to be a part of our first GIVEAWAY -click HERE.

In other news, my little man turned four months on Sunday! He is already wearing six month clothing and is getting so big. I could just kiss his chunky cheeks all day long! I love being a mom.

Our First, Fun GIVEAWAY!

2012-01-24T13:09:00.000-08:00

I am very excited to tell you all about our first giveaway! You have a chance to win this beautiful, fun embroidered bag. The lucky winner will have the chance to choose whatever they want on it (name, color, font, etc.) Men, this is a perfect gift for your special lady, and ladies, this is a perfect, personalized tote to have around! It gets even better! There will also be a $15 Starbucks gift card inside!!!! Who doesn't love Starbucks? Are you wondering how it works?

For every $3 you donate you will be put on a list (Ex. $15 will get your name on the list 5 times). You can donate through our PayPal button. When the giveaway ends, I will use a random number generator to pick the lucky winner! There a few ways to also win more entries! If you Facebook, Twitter, and blog about my giveaway your name will be added again to the list! When and if you do, just leave me a comment with the link to your blog, Twitter, or Facebook! :) The giveaway will end on February 7th. I can't wait to see who the lucky winner is!

Guess What?!!

2012-01-18T19:44:00.000-08:00

Well, we have some big news as you can see from my updated blog! We couldn’t be more excited to announce that we have decided to add to our family through the process of adoption. Over the past couple of months we have been praying and trying to discern why God has laid it on both of our hearts to seek out adoption and we have finally come to the conclusion that it’s because HE WANTS US TO ADOPT!!!

We have decided to adopt domestically through the state of South Carolina and we are very anxious to get the process started. We chose domestically rather than internationally because we wanted to leave the door open to build a relationship with our future birth mother. We understand the risks that come a long with this decision but know that this is what God has set on our hearts.

We’ve all heard the phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child.” A long with that, “It takes a village to ADOPT a child.”

We’re sending out support letters this week to ask our friends and family to join us in the process as we pursue our future little one by praying, giving, and participating in future fundraisers, events, and raffles.

This adoption will cost in the neighborhood of $14,000 (Home Study, Legal Fees, etc). We know this sounds like a lot of money (and it is), but we also know, “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

I am so excited about the journey ahead. I am even more excited about sharing more of my heart towards adoption and why we decided to adopt. Thank you for continuing to follow my blog even though I have not posted anything in awhile. We have been in a very busy season, but it's been a wonderful season to say the least.

I will be doing a fun giveaway here soon! I can't wait to share with you all what it is. I appreciate your prayers, support, and donations through the process!!

6 Weeks Already!

2011-11-13T19:12:00.000-08:00

Hello All!

I haven't posted in awhile because I have been settling in my new role as a mom and let me just tell you...it's awesome! Wow! There are no words to describe the feelings that I have for our baby boy. He has grown so much over the past six weeks and it amazes me every day that he is actually ours. What a blessing!
To celebrate the fact that Makai is a little over month I've decided to update you all on a few details about my birth, Makai, and motherhood. Oh, and pictures of course! Here goes....
1. I was induced on a Thursday afternoon with a 12 hour labor and I pushed for an hour. And yes, I did have an epidural. I am so happy with my birth experience. I would do it all over again.
2. Makai stayed in the hospital for an additional three days because he had jaundice.
3. Breastfeeding is the HARDEST thing I've ever had to learn, along with adjusting to life with a newborn. It's going great though!
4. I had a burst of hormones after Makai was born and cried ALOT for like two weeks. Giving birth, plus learning how to be a mom is indescribable mix of emotions. Robbie was so graceful!
5. Makai eats every 2 and half to three hours. It's a very demanding schedule, but it's gotten easier!
6. Makai rolled over at two weeks! Daddy got it on video and we were shocked that he did it so soon.
7. Makai loves to be held and especially when he has tummy problems.
8. Speaking of tummy problems- I've had to cut out dairy completely. Makai was having extreme tummy problems and as soon as I stopped drinking milk he got better!
9. Lack of sleep has probably been one of the hardest things to adjust to. I sure do love sleep. We are working on sleep training though, and I am hoping that he will be sleeping 6-8 hours through the night soon.
10. Driving with a crying newborn is not fun!
11. Makai smiled for the first time at 5 weeks! It was one of the best feelings in the world! It brightens my day every time I see it.
12. Honestly and truly, motherhood has been quite an adjustment in every are of my life (emotionally, physically, and in my marriage). There has been ups and downs, but God's grace has been sufficient through it all. I feel like I'm in the realm of the unknown and everyday I learn something new. I love it and wouldn't have it any other way!

He's Here!

2011-10-10T16:40:00.000-07:00

It's been 11 days since the birth our sweet baby Makai Joseph Denson. Born on Thursday, Sept 29th and weighing in at 8.5 pounds/ 21 inches long!!

He's such a sweetie and we love him to pieces. More posts coming your way when I get some more free time on my hands. Right now I am consumed with diaper changes, feedings, and tending to my sweet boy!

Our boy had jaundice and had to stay a whole day under phototherapy :(

@the Pediatrician's office

so strong already!

my little chunker!

.....his cute little face was swollen when he was born!

......More to come very soon...

Official Prego Pictures!!!!

2011-09-20T06:23:00.000-07:00

Thank you Sarah Rogers for these lovely pictures! We love them!

37 Weeks and Counting...literally!

2011-09-15T08:12:00.000-07:00

(I wish I had cute baby bump picture to post, but I thought I could bring some humor to this post by showing you the view of my feet and my watermelon size belly. This picture doesn't even do it justice, but it's funny! Maternity pictures are coming soon on a later post!)

How far along: 37 Weeks!
Baby size: Our baby is approximately 7pounds and 6 ounces. He is already a big boy!
Total weight gain: As of yesterday I have gained 31 pounds. I still can't believe it, but I am now content with the normalcy of it all.
Sleep: I get up about four or more times during the night to go to the bathroom. This is probably my least favorite thing about pregnancy since I love to sleep. I haven't had any major contractions during the middle of the night which is so wonderful!
Movement: Makai's little feet love mommy's ribs! At my ultrasound yesterday, the lady was able to see his heels pushing right under my ribs. It's funny but it's not always the best feeling. I am definitely feeling less movement these days. There's not much room in there for him, so I mostly feel kicks and pushing against the wall of my belly.
Food cravings/aversions: Strangely, I have had more cravings in the last two weeks then ever before. I was craving the other day country fried steak with gravy from Cracker Barrel. It was delicious, but I knew I overdid it after eating there. Let's just say I didn't have the healthiest meal on the menu.
Pregnancy Symptoms: Oh, the list goes on...
-I definitely mastered the art of the waddle.
-Back ache
-Abdominal pain
-Contractions here and there (they are really confusing, especially when your so close to having your baby)
-Fatigue by the middle of the day
What I miss: I definitely miss having my body pre-pregnancy. You don't realize how much pregnancy affects your body and everything you do until your actually pregnant. I'm looking forward to having my body back and being able to do the things that I used to do.
What I'm looking forward to: I am looking forward to just simply meeting my little man. I have had so much anticipation and excitement built up for so long now. I am just ready to hold him in my arms and kiss his cheeks.
Milestones: I am now considered full term, so I can technically go into labor anyday now. I am trying not to get my hopes up just in case this little guy decides to make his appearance past my due date. Although, If he does come early we will definitely be ready! The car is ready with his carseat, diaper bag, and our hospital bag. We are ready to roll!
Best moment this week: I would say that the best moment this week will probably be tonight! We are going to get some maternity pictures taken later today thanks to my dear friend Sarah, who is also prego! She just found out she is having a boy and I am super excited.
Moments with Robbie: Looking back on all the moments that Robbie and I have had are so memorable and hilarious.
As of lately, our fun moments have been:
- finishing up the baby's room and getting the house ready for the baby.
- going to my weekly doctor's appointments hoping that I am dilated more
-talking non stop about the baby coming
-laughing at all my crazy symptoms and my waddle

I could go on and on. Robbie has been my number one supporter, and I couldn't have made it this far without him! I am so blessed.
Have a great weekend!

A Minor Scare

2011-09-06T09:20:00.000-07:00

The weekend before last, Robbie and I experienced a unexpected situation with our baby. That weekend I woke up in the middle of the night off and on with severe pain in my back and lower abdominal. I hadn't felt pressure like that before and it got worst that Sunday morning so Robbie and I decided to head to the Emergency Room before my baby shower. While I was there they noticed a arrhythmia in our baby's heart and they noticed that I was dilated at 1 cm and 50 % efaced which is usually not common at 34 weeks. Sadly I wasn't able to make it to my own baby shower that my mom threw for me and I was transferred to MUSC via ambulance and stayed overnight. The next day we got a echo ultrasound of our baby's heart and spoke to a pediatric cardiologist about Makai's heart. After further monitoring he said that our baby's heart was fine even though it may skip a beat and some baby's are born with this with no complications. Thank goodness! I am still in pain and having contractions but I am so thankful that everything is okay and that we are home. Just wanted to give everyone a heads up and ask for prayer. My doctor said I am just one of those people who contract early and it's very painful. I've been taking lots of baths, using a heating pad, and taking lots of tylenol. It's been tough and painful, but it's so worth it. Only 4 weeks to go!

Leap of Faith

2011-08-25T06:19:00.000-07:00

One of my dear friends here in Charleston, Chelsie, took a huge leap of faith last week. She headed to her new home in Huangshi, China to become a middle school English teacher. She will be there for about a year and will be bringing God's Love to the people there! I am in awe of her boldness and bravery. I am speechless when I read her emails and her blog. I couldn't imagine living in any other place besides the place that I've grown up in. I am such a homebody and I can't imagine what she is going through right now. I just want to hug her right now and tell her how awesome she is for leaving everything behind to do God's work. It's incredible! Please read her blog. It gives you an insight to what life is like in China, and how the enemy has power in China. She described the atmoshere as, "heavy and dry". I will be praying for Chelsie and others like her. And I don't want to say that I am praying for her and not really do it, so I am saying that I will on my blog to keep me acountable! Thank you, thank you!

This is Chelsie!

Thank you for reading! Wishing you all a lovely weekend!

Picture Overload

2011-08-22T13:04:00.000-07:00

Great things have been happening lately within our realm of friends, our ministry, and within our little family! I am overwhelmed with gratefulness thinking about where we are at in life and what God is doing. I feel so blessed and there is nothing more to say than that God is good! The proof is in the pictures but beware of picture overload! I'm sorry but I couldn't help myself.

CSU MOVE IN DAY

Genesis, the college ministry that my husband is over helps every year with the freshman at Charleston Southern move into their dorms! It was so much fun and our team showed up strong!

BOTTLES AND BRUSHES

We went on a date with a few friends to a painting place called Bottles and Brushes. We were all taught how to paint a painting with our spouse and it was so much fun!

And last but not least, I will be 34 weeks this week! Wowzers! Only 6 more weeks left and we are getting so excited. In the mean time I am looking forward to my baby showers this weekend. And yes, that means I will be posting more pictures- yay!

Happy Monday to ya!

Eyes on the Prize

2011-08-09T07:04:00.000-07:00

October is creeping up on us and I can't believe that in eight weeks we will finally be able to meet our baby boy. After ten months of expectancy building up in us we finally will be able to hold our boy in our arms and introduce him to the world. Words can't even describe how excited we both are.

Lately, I have been thinking about becoming a mother and what that entails. I have meditated on what it will be like, how life will be different, and how I will adjust to the change. I find myself on certain days in a whirl of thoughts and sometimes I can't even focus- even in my quiet time. As I was skimming looking for a certain verse this morning I stumbled upon Ephesians 3:14-20.

"When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father,the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God. Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen."

As I gear into this new phase of life I undestand that God will give me the strength and he will empower me to do what he has called me to be- a mother. As I continue to seek after him and understand his love, in verse 19 it says that I will "be made complete will all the fullness of life and power that comes from God." You see I must keep my eyes on the prize (Philippians 3:14) even before I begin to mother and after I become a mother. I need Him to answer all my questions. I need him to keep me grounded. I need him-period.

P.S A very dear friend of mine wrote a post about Parenting and resources that help along the way. It' very inspiring! Stop by and check it out. http://www.mandysantos.com/

Pregnancy Update: 30 Weeks!

2011-07-25T09:02:00.000-07:00

How far along: 30 Weeks (this Thursday)

Baby size: Butternut Squash (17 in, 3.1 Ibs)

Total weight gain/loss: 20 pounds! Wowzers! It's hard to believe that I have gained that much but my doctor said that my weight is right on target!

Food Aversions: Lately, I have been craving ice and Popsicles. South Carolina brings a very hot summer! And I want nothing more on a hot summer day then to cool down with something cold and tasty. I have really craved snow cones but I can't seem to find anyone that sells them.

Pregnancy Symptoms: As my third trimester is moving along, I have been feeling great for the most part! I have noticed that I am getting up more during the night, whether it's tossing and turning or having to just use the restroom. It's hard not getting a full night of sleep because I feel fatigued during throughout the day. I like to believe that my body is preparing me for the lack of sleep that I will have when the baby comes. My dreams have been very weird and vivid. Last night I woke from a nightmare and my heart was beating so fast because it seemed so real. And last but not least, I have noticed that I have been getting a shortness of breath.

Movement: Makai moves non stop. He moves the most at night and during the middle of the night. He must have his days and nights mixed up. His movements are definitely getting harder and stronger. I love feeling him move, because It lets me know he's okay.... although his movements can hurt at times if he hits in the wrong spot.

What I miss: I would say that the only thing I really miss is a full night of rest. I have been taking naps lately, but I would love to sleep without waking up during the night.

What I'm looking forward to: I look forward to counting down in single digits! As of this week, we will have 10 weeks left till my due date and I couldn't be more excited! It's getting so close and I am filled with all sorts of emotions! I can't wait to meet him.

Milestones: According to my weekly updates, a huge milestone for this week is our baby's brain gain. Until now, the surface of his brain was smooth, but now his brain is taking on those characteristic grooves and indentations. The reason for this change allows for an increased amount of brain tissue which prepares the baby for life outside of the womb and the street smarts he will need.

Best moment this week: I am assuming the best moment for us this week will be on Friday. We are having a 3D ultrasound and my dad is coming down to see it. I love seeing the change in Makai's body and in his face every time we go. It's so incredible.

Moments with Robbie: Robbie and I bought Makai an outfit last week, and we think it's the outfit that he will come home in. It's so adorable! It's so wonderful that Robbie is just as excited as I am about Makai coming. I am so thankful for him.

Taking a Break

2011-07-20T11:45:00.000-07:00

I've always loved being a part of a bible study. There is something distinct and encouraging about being in a small group setting with other girls who love the Lord. I have fortunately had the privilege of leading groups for almost 3 years now and have seen amazing things happen. I've seen young adult ladies give there lives to God. I've seen ladies break the chains of their past and find hope and contentment in God. I've seen ladies thrive off of each other and encourage one another from their own experiences. It's been such a blessing and honor to witness God work in and through these ladies in bible study.

As a new season of life starts for Robbie and I in the fall, we will both be taking a break from leading small groups. I am so excited about starting a new family, but at the same time I will miss being over a small group. It's not even about pride, it's just a passion that God has given me and I will miss doing it. The funny thing is, is that I just recently bought two new bible studies for myself and as the new semester is approaching I can't help but prepare for it as if I am going to lead a group. I guess it's just habit. I truly believe God has raised up some really amazing small group leaders for this fall. And I think I have a huge opportunity as I am taking a break from leading to pray for them and encourage them. I can't wait to see what is going to come out of our small groups this semester- I know it's going to be great!

"For everything there is a season and a time for every matter under heaven..."- Ecclesiastes 3:1

Makai at 27 Weeks!

2011-07-12T08:12:00.000-07:00

"Oh, it is Love..."

2011-07-11T13:09:00.000-07:00

2 years ago today I said "I do" to one heck of a guy. He makes me laugh and smile crazy and I couldn't imagine spending life with anyone else. Happy Anniversary Robbie Denson!

Surprises

2011-07-06T07:44:00.000-07:00

I always say that I can't stand surprises, but then again I really do love them. Robbie and I came home from church last night and saw a brown package on our front porch marked to Baby Makai Denson (our baby) and we had no idea what it was or who it was from. I opened it up and found this beautiful blanket that one of my friend's mother-in-law made for us. It matches our Adorable Dino bedding set and I love it!

This is the quilt she made. And the picture below is the picture of the actual bedding set we registered for! She did such an awesome job.

After recieving this random gift, I am just reminded of the significance of acts of kindness. I've met Susan (the lady who made the blanket) a couple of times and we don't know each other that well, yet out of the kindness of her heart she took the time to make this for our baby. I don't know why she did it, but I do know that I want to have a heart like hers; a giving and loving heart. Thank you Susan!

Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.

Proverbs 11:25

If only...

2011-06-20T07:23:00.000-07:00

If only I could be here today.....

...my neighborhood pool. I would be soaking up the sun, sipping my water, and thinking about the future!

I guess I'll have to wait till Friday. :)

Hope you all have a lovely day!

Pregnancy Update- 24 Weeks!

2011-06-16T08:17:00.000-07:00

How far along: 24 Weeks!

Baby size: Length of an ear of corn and just over a pound.

Total weight gain/loss: 16 Pounds! I can't believe it. My doctor says my weight gain is right where it needs to be, but it can be a little scary at times looking at the scale.

Sleep: Good but not great. I wake up constantly through the night just from being uncomfortable. I toss and turn constantly. Hopefully I will be able to get some great sleep soon!

Movement: I feel him constantly. Mainly in the mornings and then a lot at night when I am lying down. I'm not sure what it is but when I lay on my back no matter what time it is he will start moving. I guess that's the sweet spot. Also, my friends and family have had the chance to feel him kick and move more lately which is really exciting.

Food cravings/aversions: I currently crave fruit juice and peanut butter/banana sandwiches. Weird, isn't it?

Pregnancy Symptoms: I feel great but I do get occasional back pain and leg cramps. I try to stretch through out the day, because I don't work out at all. I wish I had the desire to work out more, I bet I would feel ten times better.
What I miss: I don't really miss anything at the moment. I love being pregnant. There has been some ups and downs, but I've learned to adjust to it all.
What I'm looking forward to: We are painting the baby's room tomorrow! Ahhh! I can't wait. After we are done painting we can then finish putting up the rest of the furniture. Whoo hoo!
Milestones: I am 24 weeks! 6 months! I feel like that is a huge milestone. I can't believe I only have 4 more months left. I am so ready to meet him!
Best moment this week: Robbie said he came to bed Monday night when I was already sleeping and he told me that he put his hand on my stomach and Makai was moving like crazy. I was so shocked that I slept through it all, but It's so neat that Makai was trying to show off for his Dad.
Moments with Robbie: Robbie and I have had some really great conversations lately about the future. We are both so excited to become parents and have no idea what that will look like. We have talked about how anxious we are to meet our little guy and how my pregnancy has already gone by so fast. It's moments like these that I know we will look back on and remember how excited we were about becoming parents! It's so wonderful to have a husband who is equally as excited about our baby as I am.

Early Birthday Surprises

2011-06-13T11:31:00.000-07:00

I woke up this morning feeling so happy and joyful! I had such a wonderful weekend thanks to my amazing husband and momma! Robbie took me out on Saturday night for to celebrate my birthday. We headed downtown and he surprised with this:

A Gift Card to Massage Envy for a 1 Hour Massage!

Say what???? I am so excited to schedule an appointment to get my free massage. Pregnancy does work to your back, and I can't wait to get rubbed down (from a lady- of course!)

Secondly, Robbie and my mom put together a birthday party for me yesterday. I knew there was going to be a party but I didn't know who they were all inviting. I truly felt overwhelmed with joy with the amount of friends and family who showed up to our house! My dad, who lives out of town, even came and thanks to my lovely hormones I busted out crying when he walked in. It meant the world to me that he came.

Party Pictures

My younger sisters, Carolyn & Katie

We had so many people pile into our living room, but I loved it!

(My lovely mom!)

(My dad!)

My stomach is getting huge! Makai is growing fast.

P.S My birthday isn't till Tuesday, but thank you for all the early birthday wishes!

America's Got Talent- Tanner!

2011-06-09T06:48:00.000-07:00

I want to name our boy Tanner, just because of this little boy! I love this video! It will make you laugh so hard!

Letting Go.....

2011-06-08T07:32:00.000-07:00

This God- his way is perfect; the word of the Lord proves true; he is a shield for all those who take refuge in him. - Psalm 18:30

I needed this- especially yesterday. Yesterday was just one of those days. You all can relate right? One of those days when you feel emotionally and physically drained? There are situations happening in my life right now that I simply have no control over. And honestly, I don't want to have control over them but I wish I had answers!

It's so good to know that amongst life's surprises, God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:9). He is the one ultimately in control, and he holds our needs in his hands.

It is also wonderful to have people in your life who care about you and love you through crazy times. I want to give a shout out to my husband who was so patient and sweet towards me yesterday. I was an emotional wreck every time we talked, but he prayed over me and listened to me vent. I am so blessed to have such a loving husband. Thank you baby!

P.S Today is a good day!

Tons of Randomness!

2011-06-06T12:02:00.000-07:00

1. I cannot wait to get this! We registered for this lamp to go with our Adorable Dino bedding set and I am super excited about. Isn't it just so cute? Oh, and yes-our theme for the nursery is little dinosaurs!

2. My next project after the nursery is my guest bedroom. We are going to have one of our friends make a fabric headboard for us. I heard that they are really easy and inexpensive, so has become my goal within the next couple of months. I was looking online and I saw this cute idea....

3. My birthday is next Tuesday! I will be 22 years old! I don't think there really is anything special about turning 22, but birthdays are always exciting, right?

4. I finally found a long dress! Well, actually my best friend found it for me at Ross and it was cheap! I'm hoping to wear it still even after the baby comes! I plan to wear the mess out of it this summer.

5. And my last randomness goes to my new interest in the show Dual Survivor. Robbie and I stayed up till midnight watching it the other night and I was very intrigued! I feel like such a nerd for liking it so much, but it's so interesting to watch how they try to survive in different parts of the world. Craziness!

A Hopeful Glimmer

2011-06-02T06:44:00.000-07:00

Question: Have you prayed or waited for something for a long season? If so, have you seen a glimpse-no matter how small- that God is working?

I was faced with this question last year through a Ruth bible study by Kelly Minter. My answer was easy- yes, yes, and again yes!

I was going through a tough season when faced with that question. I had huge desires and plans for my life but at the time it obviously wasn't what God wanted for me. It was one of the hardest seasons of my life where I was broken and impatient with God.

I wrote this in my journal during that time,

At times, I tend to live out life based off of my emotions. I get anxious about the future and I act off of my emotions/desires and it's not right. My desires can easily lead to sin. I want to- with God's strength to break my habit and start living my life out of Godly principles. I want to have patience, hope, confidence, and a heavenly mindset.

Lord, give me the strength to live for you alone. I don't want to be enticed by my desires but I want to be enticed by your word and your promises. Let me not take your grace or presence for granted, and Lord I want my eyes to only be on you. Thank you for your invisible hand at work in my life. I love you. amen.

After going through the story of Ruth I was so encouraged by her faith. I slowly learned how to be patient and humble myself before God. I learned how to still follow God through my weeping. I also learned how to sow towards the harvest- the blessings of God. These quotes encouraged me along the way...

"It's not our weeping that brings the harvest but our sowing. We can grieve and shed an ocean of tears, but but no harvest will come unless we simultaneously cast our seed."

"What we do while weeping makes the difference."

"Humility is the seed that flowers into real trust that God knows what he is doing. God sends wildernesses and trials into our lives to teach us to depend solely on him."

I am not sure where you are today or what kind of season you are in, but I do know that God is doing a work in your life. At times we may not see this with our eyes- he doesn't promise us that his plans are tangible, but trust that his invisible hand is always at work. The enemy is out there to destroy us and he wants nothing more then for us to doubt God and his promises.

Please leave this page encouraged. I have experienced the blessings of the harvest. It took a hard, long season to get there, but I couldn't have done it with out having faith in God's timing. I don't doubt that I will have more tough, waiting seasons in my life but I feel more prepared now. I have a hopeful glimmer and it's so refreshing...

Galations 6:9

Switchfoot=Passion

2011-06-01T11:44:00.000-07:00

Do you have a favorite band or song that you could just listen to over and over? I sure do. I'm not sure when I was first introduced to Switchfoot, but I am a die hard fan. I love this band, not lustfully though! My husband jokes with me about how much I like them, but he clearly knows that he's my favorite! Aside from their seven albums, Jon Foreman, the lead singer, came out with 4 single albums called Fall, Spring, Summer, and Winter. I can simply shuffle these songs all day long. They are so beautiful.

Robbie and I went to go see Switchfoot in Charlotte after we got married it and it was incredible. I loved how authentic the band members were on stage. The words to their songs and their passion while singing them portrays God alone in every way. They don't have to go around and preach at their concerts because you can see Christ in their actions! I love it! What better way to be an example to those who may not believe in Christ?

I heard a quote once and it reminds me of what Switchfoot does and also what I am encouraged to do,

"If you believe in something passionately people will follow you."

21 Weeks!

2011-05-26T07:52:00.000-07:00

I devote this post one of my favorite blog friends, Cait because I got the idea from her page! Thanks girl!

*How far along: 21 weeks

*Babe size: Baby Makai is the length of a carrot. I am not quite sure what he weighs. Last week he weighed 12 ounces!

*Total weight gain/loss: 11 Pounds! Wowzer! From now on I am supposed to gain about five pounds a month.

*Sleep: Not so good! I fall asleep around 10pm every night but I wake up constantly because I can't get comfortable.

*Movement: I think our son wants to do karate or soccer because he kicks constantly, especially when I lie on my back. I love it being able to feel him, though! It makes the pregnancy feel more real.

*Food cravings/aversions: I have very weird cravings that consist of Broccoli and chedder soup, Icees, Deli sandwiches, and fruit!

*Pregnancy Symptoms: Leg spasms and back pain. It's not severe or anything, but stretching has helped tremendously.

*What I miss: I only miss being able to sleep like I used to.

*What I'm looking forward to: Registering for this little man and picking out a theme for the nursery.

*Milestones: I hit the half way mark last week! Only 19 weeks to go and we get to meet Makai. I am so anxious to see what he looks like.

*Best moment this week: I got to wear my new maternity clothes this week. I feel so comfortable in them, and it's so nice to have clothes that fit!

*Moments with Robbie: He has been feeling Makai move more and more lately. I am so glad, because I want him to feel a part of my pregnancy as much as he can. The more he feels him, the more it becomes a reality for him.

Miscellany Monday

2011-05-23T08:29:00.000-07:00

1. The Purse-driven Life by Anita Renfroe is a book that I've been reading. A lady at my work gave it to me. I enjoy quick reads and this one is hilarious.

2. I hit the jack pot on maternity clothes at K-Mart this past weekend and I am so excited! Yes, I said K-Mart. Surprised? I have been searching for the longest time for cute, inexpesive shirts and I finally found them! K-Mart usually isn't my go-to place to shop, but when your shirts and pants don't fit you learn to compromise! Yay, for great finds!

3. Oranges, Watermelons, strawberries Oh-My! I can't stay away from these fruits! There is nothing like biting into watermelon on a hott, summer day! Oh, I can't resist..

4. I miss this. This was the day after our wedding on our way to Jamaica. I would love to be in Jamaica again with my honey. We would be soaking up the sun and Bob Marley would be playing in the background. Oh, memories...

5. Verse of the Day:

"Oh sing to the Lord a new song, for he has done marvelous things." - Psalm 98:1

Makai Joseph Denson

2011-05-21T08:04:00.000-07:00

20 Weeks

(A video of Makai opening his mouth.)

Boy? I think yes.

Just Relax

2011-05-20T16:57:00.000-07:00

How To Have A Relaxing Day:

1. Sleep in till 11am with the Hubs.

2. Eat breakfast for lunch. Yum!

3. Go see Thorn in theaters. Very good movie might I say. Although, you must purchase popcorn and an Icee to fully enjoy it!

4. Read new Parents magazine.

5. Make and eat delicious chili.

6. Watch recorded shows on DVR and do nothing but relax for the rest of the night.

Relaxing Day= Pure Bliss

I Am Second

2011-05-10T07:43:00.000-07:00

Please watch this video. It's about Bailee Madison, a young actress, and her story is so sweet.

The Link below will take you to more incredible I Am Second testimonies from famous actors, celebrities, and athletes. It will definitely stir your heart.

I Am Second

Miscellany Monday-Love you mom!

2011-05-09T11:07:00.000-07:00

1. Happy Belated Mother's Day to all you pretty mommas out there! I hope your Mother's Day was magnificent! Here are some pictures of my beautiful mom, Kim. She is an incredible person! I love you momma!

(Mom and her kids, minus the baby)

2. Can your man rock a tank top? I told Robbie I would never let him get a tank top, just because I thought it would just be plain weird (that's my personal opinion). He got one as a gift for being a groomsmen, and It doesn't look as bad as I thought it would. He is so handsome.

3. We decided on a name for our boy! Finally, we both like the same name! Although, I can't post it quite yet. I promise I will soon. We've agreed to tell the name by word of mouth only for now. If you are prego this book may help. We got it from Wal-mart and it's only $9!

4. My verse of the Day: 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in ALL circumstances for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."

Way back- Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-04T12:49:00.000-07:00

This is us way back in January 2009.

We were the Saturday Night Live Spartan Cheerleaders for a Talent Show at out Church.

(These are the kind of moments you'll never forget.)

Enjoy your Wednesday!

What do you smell like?

2011-05-03T07:46:00.000-07:00

"But thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place. For we are a frangrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing; to the one an aroma from death to death, to the other an aroma of life to life. And who is adequate for these things? For we are not like many peddling the word of God but as from sincerity as commisioned by God, in the sight of God we speak in Christ."- 2 Corinthians 2:14-17

I read this passage this morning and I was both challenged and encouraged. As a Christian, what kind of frangrance am I setting off to those around me? Do I smell and act like that of Christ? Or do I smell of destruction and sin? It's so fulfilling to know that in Christ we set off such a sweet frangrance because of the result of his spirit inside of us. When people smell and experience Christ they experience his Word and the knowledge of Him; a sweet aroma like no other. How beautiful is that?

My friends, what do you smell like today?

A Short Miscellany Monday

2011-05-02T06:54:00.000-07:00

1. One wedding down and one more to go! We had the privelage of being in Robbie's brother's wedding this weekend and it was absolutely beautiful. Their colors were yellow and blue, and it all came together wonderfully! In two weeks we will be heading to Tennessee for another wedding that I am in and then I am done for the year. Love is in the air!!

( You can barely see my baby bump.)

2. Sprite. I can't get enough of it! I am challenging myself for the next week to give up sodas which mostly consists of Sprite for me. I know that drinking water is healthier for my body, and I don't drink enough of it. Wish me luck!

3. I want to invest in this type of dress. I'm not sure if these floor length dresses have a name, but I think they are adorable. I've seen so many people wearing them and It's time that I step out of the box and try it too!

I've got to get back to work. I hope you all enjoy this beautiful Monday!

Goodbyes....

2011-04-27T11:45:00.000-07:00

Over the past four months, I've had to say goodbye to a few things and it's been a fun and humorous journey.....

Goodbye to:

- Skinny jeans. I miss you!
- My Brain....Where did you go? I have suddenly become scattered brain and forgetful, which has left me in embarrassing situations.
- My Energy (although it has slowly started coming back, YAY!)
- Peeing normally
- A normal looking chest (Let's just be honest here.)
- Less Hormones. Don't you just love hormones? Well imagine yourself having hormones on steroids and you can't help it. No longer can I watch sappy shows without tearing up. It's just the truth!

Oh, the joys of pregnancy! I know that saying goodbye to these things are only temporary, but in the end it doesn't really bother me. I know come October I will look back and realize that it was all worth it.

...Little Children....

2011-04-26T13:27:00.000-07:00

As I was reading this afternoon, I came across this verse:

"See what kind of love the father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are."

My mother and my father divorced when I was just about three years old. My dad has always lived outside of Charleston and I have seen him throughout the years off and on. After the divorce, my mom remarried and my step dad pretty much was the one that raised me. I've always stayed in close contact with my dad and he has always supported me financially. I love my dad tremendously and I talk to him each week. I don't blame him at all for his absence in my life. He is a blessing and I love it when I get to see him. I say this all to say that it was difficult growing up without him in my life. I was very blessed to have such a caring step-dad but I desired to have that personal relationship with my dad.

After reading the verse above, I was reminded that no matter how my life has played out I can rest assure that I have a Father in God himself. He is there for me 100% and when I begin to feel those feelings of loneliness I can look to him and be reminded that I am his child. And he has my life in his hands. Isn't it so encouraging to know that our God considers us his children? He is a Father to us all, and we can rest in his love alone.

For those of you who have grown up without one of your parents or maybe even both, my heart goes out to you today. Thank you for letting me share.

Romans 8:15

Miscellany Monday

2011-04-25T11:50:00.000-07:00

I hope you are all smiles today. If not....

...because God is good. (Psalms 100:5)

1. My cup overfloweth! This past Sunday was such a wonderful reminder of God's amazing love and grace. His love towards us is so beautiful and we did nothing to deserve it. There is freedom! We are free!!

"Be he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we gave turned -every one- to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all." -Isaiah 53:6

2. Isn't this picture funny?

Speaking of little babies...I felt the baby move this morning for the first time and it was incredible. It happened two times in a row and it was exactly how everyone described it; a little flutter. A sweet, little "I love you even more now" type flutter.

3. My husband is INSANE. No I'm just kidding, but really he has been avidly doing a work out called Insanity. I am so proud of him. He makes sure he gets it done every day no matter what our schedule looks like. And the results are looking good!

4. 'Tis the season for bugs...ugh! I am covered in bites from deer flies. We went fishing with my parents this weekend and I didn't catch anything, but bugs. Today my new best friend is Benadryl Itch Stopping Cream. Don't you just hate it when you have an itch? Pray for me please, before I go crazy.

Please link up with Carissa's Miscellany Mondays! It's so fun and you won't regret it.

A Hair Dilemma

2011-04-20T11:58:00.000-07:00

Ladies, I'm in need of your help. If you have curly hair you will understand my dilemma of finding the perfect hair product for your hair. I'm not sure what works better? Mousse? Hair gel? Hair creme? I have been back and forth with different products and name brands and still can't find the perfect one that makes your hair look like this.

I've been currently using this, and sadly it's just not up to par.

Any suggestions? I am in a wedding soon, and if I don't get my hair professionally done then I will attempt to style my hair myself. Come on you curly headed girls, help a sister out. Muchas Gracias!

Happy Wednesday to you all!

GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD

2011-04-19T06:49:00.000-07:00

"Wake up, wake up. The WORLD is just right outside your door. You never know you might have the LOVE that they've been waiting for..."

I love this song! Enjoy!

Miscellany Monday

2011-04-18T12:59:00.000-07:00

1. IKEA...need I say more? I went on a quick road trip with my mom, sisters, and friends this weekend and we all fell in love with Ikea. Never will I ever shop anywhere else for my living room, kitchen, or bedroom. It was pure bliss walking through Ikea but also sad because I couldn't buy anything at the time, nor did I have the space to bring something back to Charleston.

2. I am in love with these: Kraft Snackables Cracker Cuts. They are so good and convienant for a snack. Just get your box of your favorite crackers and put these bad boys on them and you will love it. They are simple and easy!

3. Baby Names. I am having the hardest time deciding on a name for our little boy. Is it usually this hard? Or is it just me? We have decided to cool off on telling people what we are thinking about, until we have made a decision. It's so hard to choose though. We are picking a name that our child will have for the rest of his life and I feel the pressure!!!

4. In my opinion, this is the best show ever on NBC: Parenthood. This Tuesday is the season finale, and I am so sad because it is so addicting.

Happy Monday to you all and thank you for reading about my miscellaneous things!

Compassion

2011-04-12T13:20:00.000-07:00

Lately, I've been going through a reading plan of the bible based on the theme Compassion. I've wanted to learn more about God's compassion, and how I can better show compassion to others. And today, I was put into a "compassionate" situation. Let me explain...

Earlier this afternoon I heard a knock at the door (our church office) and when I opened it a lady about my age and her young daughter came walking in. She was very distraught and asked if anyone could help her. Here is her story: She has Dialysis. Her family left her and her daughter in Charleston, and they have no money for gas to get back home to Ohio. They have no where to stay, and have a few food stamps left to get food. She was crying while telling me her story and my heart went heavy. I later told one of our pastors and we luckily had the money to cut her a check. When she came back to get it, she was so relieved and again started crying. She was so grateful, and I think she was even surprised that someone would help her. Who knows how many people she had to ask for help from?? I almost started crying because I was so moved by her response. My co-worker and I eventually prayed over her and she was on her way.

I am going to continue to pray for her. Her story resonates so thick in my heart, and I can't stop thinking about it. I believe that it is so easy to take life for granted and forget that there are so many people out there suffering and just trying to get by with the little that they have. Today I am challenged to be more compassionate towards others, and let that compassion result into ACTION. I don't want to be a stagnant Christian. I want God's love in me to result in action; natural, selfless action.

Psalm 41:1 "Blessed is he who has regard for the weak."

Enjoying Nature

2011-04-11T13:27:00.000-07:00

This weekend I had the privilege of going camping with Robbie and his wonderful parents. We stayed Thursday through Sunday, and it was such a memorable experience. We stayed about an hour away from Charleston, and stayed at a campground that was right on the beach. At night we could hear the waves, and it was so soothing! We spent our days there relaxing around the campfire, laying at the beach, and surviving through a thunderstorm (on our last night there). During our stay, my man caught a big sting ray and I was so proud of him. It was the only picture we took during the whole trip, because we forgot our camera. He was

was hoping for a fish, but catching anything was better than nothing. Our trip was so much fun and I am officially a camping fan. I did not think that going camping was going to feel like a vacation, but it did indeed. There is nothing better than getting away for a couple of days and enjoying God's creation.

He is so cute with his big catch!

I'm filled with Joy to say, It's a BOY!

2011-04-05T11:22:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago Robbie and I agreed to be a part of a fetal growth study at MUSC. The purpose of the study is to monitor the baby's growth over the 40 week period, plus we get 6 free 3D Ultrasounds. After going yesterday, Robbie and I found out that we are indeed having a BOY! The nurse said that it is easier to tell if your baby is a boy early on. It was such a shock to the both of us! For some odd reason, we both thought that we would have a girl, but we were surprisingly wrong. Robbie is ecstatic beyond words. He is already thinking about future football seasons with our son. I am still wrapping my mind around raising a little guy. I am both nervous and excited! I love him so much already....

Meet our little guy....

(This is between the legs. Yup, it's definitely a BOY!)

(The nurse erased his legs in this picture, so we could see his "male part" better. Cute!)

13 Weeks and Counting.....

2011-04-03T17:21:00.000-07:00

...Tummy Pictures...

Here is a picture at 10 weeks...

Wordless Wednesday

2011-03-23T12:48:00.000-07:00

Not much to say except for this: thank you Chickfil-a!!!!!!!!

Hope you all have a wonderful day!

Hello Motivation!

2011-03-22T07:45:00.000-07:00

My husband bought me these sweet running shoes yesterday and I now feel obligated to start working out. I've been telling myself for awhile now that I will start but it hasn't been easy. I am almost out of my first trimester and I feel my energy coming back little by little. Thank you Jesus! And to top it off, spring is here! The weather is perfect for being outside! I plan to start off slow by doing a bit of heavy walking either in the morning or when I get off of work. I don't want to overdue it, but I do want to stay healthy through out my pregnancy and just in general. Wish me luck!

I'm curious, how do you motivate yourself to work out?

Remember Me?

2011-03-16T08:17:00.000-07:00

How long is too long? It's been months since I have signed into my blogger account to write a post. Wow! The busyness of life has caught up to me, and honestly blogging has been the last thing on my mind. I have lost some followers along the way, but that's okay! I plan to sweet talk some of you and gain you back. (haha!)
Change definitely has taken place in my life over the past year. Things have happened that we did not expect, and God has surprised us! Here's a little glimpse of what I mean:

1. We bought a house in October of last year and we love it. We live in the country and it's so peaceful. Dorothy, from the Wizard of Oz was right, "There is no place like home!" Plus, it will be 5 minutes from my husband's job come November.

2. In January of this year, my husband was given the opportunity to become head Pastor of Genesis. Genesis is the 18-20 something ministry at our church, Northwood Assembly. I am so proud of my husband, Robbie. He has worked so hard for years, and God is definitely using him in incredible ways.

3. And last but not least, we are expecting!!!!! We found out that I was pregnant in February and I will be 11 weeks tomorrow! We have both wanted this for so long, but we wanted God's timing more than anything. Suprisingly, pregnancy has caught me off guard. My body has experienced things like never before, and I would love nothing more than to sleep, sleep, sleep ALL DAY LONG. Unfortunately, I can't do that because it's not reality! We will be finding out the gender in May, and I can't wait to share our experiences with you all along the way.

Meet our little nugget, Baby Denson (at 6 weeks).

Thank you to all who plan to keep up with my posts. It means so much to me and I appreciate the support and comments. I can't promise that I will blog every day, but I will when I get the chance. Writing about what's going on in life can be so refreshing and I know I am going to LOVE doing it again. I hope to have a new design for my blog soon!

Hope you all have a lovely day!

To blog or not to blog?

2010-09-04T12:36:00.000-07:00

Oh my! Has it really been a month since I've blogged? Wow! I have a tendency to put off blogging, mainly because the Fall is almost here and we have been very busy. Ooops!

What has been going on in my world....

1. As you all know from my last post, we got a puppy named Theo. It's been awesome! I never thought that having a puppy would be so much fun. Yes, it's definitely a responsibility but it's been awesome having a little guy to take care of. Robbie and I both feel like we have a child now especially with the potty training process. My least favorite thing so far is that our dog has terrible gas! He is silent, but deadly!!! Here are a couple of pictures. He's gotten so big!

(3 months old)-when we first got him

(4 months old)

(5 months old)- Now!

2. I am feeling excited, anxious, and nervous about this fall! Our young adult ministry small groups are starting next week and I'm a bit nervous. I always get this way before small groups start, and it's because I never know what to expect on the first night of group. This semester I am leading a "single/dating" girl's small group. We will be going through Kelly Minter's Living Room Series, "Ruth". I've been studying it over the summer and it's been amazing! I definitely recommend it for all women. Ruth is such a small book in the old testament, but Kelly reveals so much truth and wisdom through Ruth's story. I was so surprised how much of my life applied to Ruth's journey. It's a must read!

3. I have exciting news! My brother-in-law Lucas just got engaged to an amazing girl named Emily. He proposed to her last Wednesday and we had a surprise engagement party for her after he proposed. I can't wait for their wedding festivities to begin! Here's a couple of pictures taken by Mrs. Sarah ! By the way she is doing a great giveaway at her blog to promote NightLife International. Check it out!

(They are so cute.)

(Her ring is BEAUTIFUL!)

4. And lastly, I've been having health issues lately with my bladder. Unfortunately, I had to have an ultrasound on my kidneys and a catheter procedure this past week. And the experience was one that I never want to go through again, if you know what I mean. I'm hoping that everything gets better soon, because it's not a comfortable process. If you all could just keep me in your prayers, I'd appreciate it!

I hope you all have a wonderful Labor Day weekend!

Meet Theo

2010-07-31T05:25:00.001-07:00

Robbie and I made a huge decision this weekend and got a puppy. Meet Theo. We saved him from the SPCA and he is a pitbull mix. He is so lovable and he already feels like our little kid.
Thanks again for all of the encouragement when it came to deciding on whether or not to get a puppy. We are very happy with our little pup!

Puppy Fever

2010-07-28T16:31:00.000-07:00

As of this week, Robbie and I are house sitting for one of the guys that he works with. We are staying for a week and we have the duty of taking care of a cute little maltese named Pachino. This is actually quite different for Robbie and I because we are not normally fans of dogs. It's not that we don't like them, it's just we prefer not to have the responsibility of them. Although, our feelings have changed a bit after taking care of Pachino this week. We have thought about getting a puppy and have even searched for puppies for sale. We haven't had any luck yet, but we did realize that they aren't cheap. The price varies on the type of dog. And the dog we want is quite expensive.

I'm interested in the idea of getting a puppy but it scares me at the same time. Only because I know it will be a big change for us. Maybe, I'm thinking about it too much, but I just want to make the right decision. Help me! Any suggestions?

This is the reason why we both have puppy fever. It's a maltese puppy. He is so precious and it's weird for me to say this, but I want him really bad!

Friday favorites

2010-07-23T18:32:00.000-07:00

1. My lovely husband let me buy these super cute shoes from Payless today! And they were on sale for only $9. They have them in silver, black, teal, purple, and brown. Oh, I just love them.

2. As my sister-in-law always says, Oh my lady! We had lunch today at Mustard Seed in Summerville and check out these delicious entrees. This is by far my favorite place to eat lunch.

3. And last but not least, my favorite place lately to shop has been at Ross. If you are ever looking for cheap house decor then you must go here! I always find neat, inexpensive things every time I go. I don't have a picture of my purchase, but today I bought a big 16 x20 picture frame. It was only $12! I plan on putting one of our wedding pictures in it. I am super excited...

What are some of your favorite things?

New Blog Design! Hip Hip Hooray!

2010-07-22T17:42:00.000-07:00

I was waiting to post something new until I had my new blog design. I love it! Thank you so very much Sarah Ann! Together we were able to come up with a new theme for my blog, and I was very impressed by her creativity! The newness is refreshing....

Feel free to grab my new button. I'd appreciate it! You all are amazing.....

My Procrastination

2010-07-16T11:26:00.000-07:00

I have a confession. I dread going grocery shopping. It's so sad, but I am simply lazy. My poor husband, gets on me at times about going, and I feel so bad. I was thinking that maybe if I started "couponing" then I might enjoy it better, because your saving money. My sister-in-law and I even started going together when we can and that has helped. I always end up going to the store because I know it needs to get done. And I know that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, so I've got to feed my man! lol. The problem is my procrastination. I'm simply lazy, and I want to change. Any suggestions on how to handle my issue? lol.

1 Year Baby!

2010-07-12T15:54:00.000-07:00

We celebrated our one year anniversary this past weekend, and it was pure bliss! I was hoping to upload a video that Robbie and I took over the weekend. It's not finished, so instead here are a few pictures of our weekend (not very many though). We had planned to go out of town, but we decided to do some fun stuff here in Charleston. We also stayed in downtown Charleston for a night at the Charleston Place, which was very lovely! I would definitely say that this weekend was very refreshing, and well spent. It's not very often that Robbie and I have the whole weekend to ourselves, especially since he is a Pastor and works on Saturdays and Sundays. It was such a blessing to focus on each other for a couple of days and reflect on the past year together. Our first year of marriage was definitely awesome, but it was also a learning process for the both of us. And I've learned that it takes some serious work, but we survived and made it to one year! Whoo hoo!

Thanks again for all of the anniversary wishes! Hopefully, I will get this video posted soon...

Be Back Soon...

2010-07-09T08:29:00.000-07:00

I will be taking a break from blogging this weekend, as I celebrate my one year anniversary! I am still in shock how this past year has gone by so quickly. We will be spending our weekend doing some fun stuff, that we don't always have the time to do due to our crazy schedule. We plan on staying at a really nice hotel the night of our anniversary (July 11th), and I am super excited about it. Hopefully, I will get another post in before the weekend is over, but if not you know why.

I would say that I truly am blessed to have Robbie Denson in my life. He is a man who loves Gods, and thrives to know him more and more each day. He has pushed me to grow in amazing, crazy ways and I am so thankful for it. I wish I could say more right now, but Robbie is telling me to get off so we can head to the beach. haha. Be back soon!

Speechless and Confused...

2010-07-07T19:07:00.000-07:00

This is ridiculous........
"A 38-year-old woman from the Southern U.S. state of Georgia has been arrested after her 12-year-old son told his teacher that his mother forced him to kill his pet hamster with a hammer because of the bad grades he had received at school."-DigitalJournal.com

Isn't this crazy? A co-worker was telling me this last week, and I couldn't believe it-so I had to see for myself. And now that I've read this, I still can't believe it! Have people gone mad or what? I had to share this story with you all. Hopefully, this post isn't too much of a downer. You can read more about it here. The mother (down below) was later arrested and charged with animal cruelty, child cruelty, and battery.

My heart breaks when I hear news like this.

It leaves me speechless and confused (hence why I don't watch the news).

I've learned that we can't control what happens in our world. We can't control people. And we can't even control situations, but thankfully we do have a God that is in control.

He is above all and is all.

His ways are higher than our ways, and thank goodness for that.

Whew, what a relief! Hopefully, this encourages you when you come across crazy stuff like this.

Psalm 46:10 Be still and know that I am God.

A Birthday Dedication

2010-07-02T08:38:00.000-07:00

I wanted to dedicate today's post to one of my very best friend's
Sarah Ann Rogers.
Most of you know her through her blog, Bon Mot. Well, today is her birthday!

I've known Sarah for almost three years now and she's been a huge blessing in my life. She has an amazing heart for God and for people! And has encouraged me in so many ways. I love her smile, her sweetness, and her lovely personality! I just love her in general. lol. Happy Birthday Mrs. Rogers! I hope it is as wonderful as you are!

Tag....your IT!

2010-06-30T18:43:00.000-07:00

I've been tagged by Cole. And now you have been too!

Game # 1:

1.Go to the folder in which you store your photos.

2. Select the 8th photo.

3. Post it to your blog and tell the story behind it.

I opened my 2010 Photo folder and this was my 8th photo. This was taken earlier this year in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. A group of us from our college ministry, Genesis, headed up there to go hiking and stay for the weekend. This was the day we went shopping. It was snowing like crazy, and the guys couldn't help but throw snow balls, while we (the girls) went shopping. Good memories!

Game #2:

Answer these questions....

1.) Name 5 songs on your mixed c.d from high school.

-Oh, goodness. I was a bit of a punk rocker in high school, so here goes...

My 5 songs:

1. Cute without the "E"-Taking Back Sunday

2. Where is your boy Tonight- Fall Out Boy
3. Such Great Heights-Postal Service
4. Punk Rock Princess- Something Corporate
5. A Favor House Atlantic- Coheed and Cambria

2. )What is your favorite board game of all time?
-Hoopla! It's a game created by Cranium. Not a lot of people know about Hoopla, but it's a mixture of charades and pictionary!

3.) What is the strangest thing you have ever done with your hair?
-The strangest thing I have ever done with my hair was dye a couple pieces of my hair pink. It doesn't sound too crazy, but I have never died my hair EVER. I was definitely nervous, but I did it to support Breast Cancer Awareness.

Don't forget you have been tagged too! And, here are my three questions for you...

1. Who is your favorite male celebrity?
2. What is your biggest pet peeve?
3. Name three things that you want to do in the next five years. (It can be anything.)

Wordless Wednesday

2010-06-30T10:51:00.000-07:00

This is sord of a Wordless Wednesday. Here is a glimpse of a little guy I work with every day. He's my little man! Gosh, I can't wait to have kids one day!

Miscellany Monday!

2010-06-27T19:09:00.000-07:00

I decided to join in on the fun thanks to Carissa over @lowercase letters!

1. I am very excited to say that my anniversary is in 13 days (July 11th)! It's so weird that we've been married for almost a year, but I have loved every bit of it! I'm looking forward to our fun-filled anniversary weekend.

(This was taken the night before our wedding.)

2. The two year old's I work with are in the middle of potty training and let me just say that this process is not easy. I give all Mom's out there lots of credit, because I know it's hard work. Whew!

3. My amazing sister-in-law, Baillie, told our family two weeks ago that she is expecting! And that same week, my friend Ashton told us that she too is expecting! I am so ecstatic and I know they are going to be such an awesome Moms! I love babies!

(Baillie & Ashton)

4. ZUMBA! ZUMBA! ZUMBA! I just started doing Zumba and if you haven't tried it, YOU NEED TO! Three other girls and I attended a Zumbathon this weekend and it was 2 hours full of hip-hop/salsa dancing. We had a blast, but my body is definitely feeling the after effects.

I am Thankful!

2010-06-18T13:27:00.000-07:00

Wow! What an awesome last two weeks! Let me tell you why....

The week before last I and along with 32 others flew out to Roca Blanca, Mexico to do missions. And my oh my, I certainly had the best experience of my life. We had the chance to do vacation bible school, food distribution, dramas, ministry, service projects, and we even served at a Men's rehab center. It's hard to put into words how it felt during this trip. It was so touching to see people accept Christ and to finally find freedom. It's amazing! For me, God has definitely opened my eyes to my surroundings. We as Americans are so blessed compared to people in other parts of the world. The people in Roca Blanca basically live outside and they don't even have clean running water, yet you can still find them at church authentically worshipping and thanking there God for everything! How awesome is that! I was even challenged this week when the opportunity arose to pray over people and to share Christ with them. I was definitely out of my comfort zone, but I have no regrets because people we're impacted. Through these encounters, God has equipped me for the people here in Charleston. I no longer want to limit myself to just Church, I want to step out with boldness in my community. I can do it! All in all, it was a fantastic trip. I have no complaints, well maybe one.We had a gekco in our room the whole week and It made funny noises. I was scared every night that it would crawl on our bed. lol

You can check out more of the details of our trip at Sarah's and Anna's blog!

And another exciting thing that happened is that I turned 21 this week! It's so weird to be 21! For some reason I feel really old (even though I know I'm not). I guess the idea of getting older just feels weird to me. My man surprised me with some pretty neat presents and we went out for sushi. Who doesn't love sushi?

Thanks again for reading my post and forgive me for being such a slacker when it comes to posting. I owe you all a huge hug! Have a great Friday my friends!

Long time, no see......

2010-05-29T07:27:00.000-07:00

Hi. My name is Chelsie Denson. Remember me? lol. Yes, it's been awhile since I've blogged. It's been way to long....

Robbie and I are in such a busy season right now. We are busy with birthdays, church events, small group, Robbie's ultimate frisbee league, meetings for our missions trip to Roca Blanca, Mexico, and so much more! Honestly, I haven't had the desire to blog, due to the craziness of life right now. It's been a bit stressful, and I've had my share of emotional break downs. Thankfully, God has picked me up every time. We are still crazy busy, but I'm slowly learning how to handle it (and to not get stressed). If you know what I mean.

I will be back to posting soon, but just wanted to give everyone a heads up. And thank you to those who have emailed and contacted me about my absence! I appreciate it so much!!! Happy Saturday to everyone! :)

Much Needed Girl Time!

2010-05-08T14:34:00.000-07:00

This weekend I had the chance to go to a lake house with a group of wonderful ladies. Some of the guys, including my husband left for the Men's retreat so we decided to take advantage of some much needed girl time! And it was wonderful! We stayed Friday night and headed back today, but it was two days full of laughs, laying out, playing the games hot seat and Loser, hot tubbing, and tubing! Here's a few pictures that I took, but I will be adding the better ones later tonight!

Wordless Wednesday

2010-05-05T14:07:00.001-07:00

This is one of my favorite memories. Robbie and I did a skit for church one night as the Spartan Cheerleaders from the show Saturday Night Live. It was so fun!

P.S Please go check out Cole's page....She is doing an awesome give-away! Don't miss out on it!

Mantra Monday!

2010-05-03T04:22:00.000-07:00

This week I want to change a few things in my apartment. I want to either move furniture around, or change my wall decorations. I wish we could paint, but we have to abide by stupid apartment rules. If only I could paint colors like the ones in this picture!

I believe in miracles. I just read a touching story about an amazing miracle at a blog called The Joyeful Journey. Please go read her story, it's so moving and sweet.

I'm addicted to dresses! It's finally time to buy and wear summer dresses. I will probably where them as much as I can! They are adorable!

I wish I had a natural tan! I've always been pale-white, and probably always be. I went to the tanning bed last year before I got married, and loved my tan (even though I didn't like the fake baking). I wish it came naturally. :(

I'm jealous of those who actively exercise. Exercising is something I desire to do but it's hard to motivate myself to do it. Now is definitely the time to start, since it's bathing suit season. I can do it!

Mantra/Soundtrack of the week:

"I want to be beautiful

Make you stand in awe

Look inside my heart,

and be amazed

I want to hear you say

Who I am is quite enough

Just want to be worthy of love

And beautiful."

-Bethany Dillon

Single Sentence Sunday!!!!

2010-05-02T12:50:00.000-07:00

"Never be afraid to trust in unknown future to a known God."-Corrie Ten Boom

Look alikes??

2010-05-01T07:20:00.000-07:00

Today I woke up thinking about my family. That is my three other sisters. My older sister has a different dad, I have a different dad, and my two younger sisters have the same dad. Crazy, huh? lol. I know! Even though we have different dads, I've never considered them my half sisters. To me that's weird, because we grew up in the same house, so they've always been my "real sisters". I was glancing through a few pictures this morning of us and I realized that we don't look anything alike! Not one bit! Maybe I just can't see it because we are sisters? lol.

What do you think?

P.S My sister in the purple is Brittiney, the one in brown is Katie, and the one in the hoodie is Carolyn. They rock my world...

My pick-me-up...

2010-04-29T18:43:00.001-07:00

I need a pick-me-up. I have been mentally and physically exhausted so far this week, and it's only Thursday? Robbie and I have been very busy with ministry and small groups. And it seems like life in general never slows down. Also, the kids at my job have been acting coo-coo for Cocoa Puffs this week, and I want to pull my hair out. Can anyone relate with me? lol. And to top it off, I've been thinking greatly about some decisions for my future, which can be very overwhelming....

Yesterday, during my lunch break I sat in my car and leaned my head on the steering wheel. I needed encouragement to get me through the day, so I started flipping through my bible. I wanted to hear from God, and this is what he gave me.....

* Rejoice in the Lord; always I say rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand, do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known by God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Jesus Christ. -Philippians 4:4-7

*Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all things will be added unto you. -Matthew 6:33

*For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. -Isaiah 55:8-9

Through these times of craziness or whatever you may call it, I am thankful to know that I have a God who is at hand. Who understands my needs, and has my best interest at heart. I am relieved to also know that his thoughts and ways are higher than mine, because I definitely want his guidance through these "times", not my own. Who knows where I would be right now, if I depended solely on myself? That's a scary thought, isn't it?

The upside to all of this, is that I found my pick-me-up. And no it wasn't chocolate or a slice of cheesecake....it was actually time spent with my Savior in my car.

Oh, how refreshing that is! :)

To Love their Husbands Tuesdays:

2010-04-29T18:36:00.000-07:00

Okay, so last week I started To Love their Husbands Tuesdays and it's pretty awesome. The whole goal is to better show love and appreciation towards your husband! My goal last week was to leave Robbie sweet notes, that he could see as soon as he woke up. I usually leave him lists to do, but I wanted to end that habit, so I decided on writing ONLY sweet notes! Here's how it went.....I did it successfully on Wednesday and Thursday, and then Thursday night I got sick. While I was sick I forgot for the next two days to do my sweet notes, so I left a long, unexpected one on Saturday. Honestly, I was kind of a slacker, but I blame it on my health. That probably isn't fair is it? lol. The most important thing is that I tried, and I'm not going to stop! I have all of you to keep me accountable, so don't give up on me just yet.(haha) Before I hit the sack tonight, I will have decided on my next assignment and I'm more than ready to start. Until then, I'm probably going to go write my guy a sweet note and give him a big bear hug as soon as I see him......It's the least I could I do, right? (lol)

I wish you all a lovely Tuesday!

Mantra Monday!

2010-04-26T03:29:00.000-07:00

This week I am anticipating and praying for a specific thing! I don't want to jinx it by saying it, but I will tell you all that I'm praying for a certain opportunity to work out!

I believe it's been an amazing semester of small group. Unfortunately, tonight is our last night together, but I've thoroughly enjoyed getting to know these girls from the inside out! It's truly been a blessing to see God move in them! I'm definitely going to miss meeting with these girls every Monday at my place...

I'm addicted to strawberries. They are so juicy and they literally melt in your mouth at every bite. Oh, I just love them! They have to be in my fridge at all times! (ask my husband, if you don't believe me. lol).

I wish that I could just get away with my with this guy. I am counting down the days till our anniversary (July 11th), because we will be going on a mini vacation and we desperately need it!

I'm jealous of new moms. Lately, I've been watching A Baby Story on TLC and I just want to be prego so badly. Although Robbie and I aren't planning on having kids right now, I am definitely anticipating being pregnant one day!

Soundtrack/Mantra for this week:

Forever I'll tell you
Yeah I'll scream until it hurts
That I can't live without you
You are Heaven I am Earth
And even from the moment that you saved my life
That I'll always love you

Hallelujah the battle is won let the church bells ring
Hallelujah salvation has come and it came for me
What was lost now is found, yeah the heart that was bound is free
Your grace amazes me

I can't get this song out of my head! It's "I'll Always Love You" by Phil Wickham. To really soak it in, check out this link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLozv-DUGcE

Happy Monday, my friends......

Single Sentence Sunday!!!!

2010-04-25T08:48:00.000-07:00

"In a world that is falling apart I have found my hope, cause the power that brightens the stars, brought to life my soul."

-Phil Wickham

Percentages aren't Permanent!

2010-04-24T15:12:00.000-07:00

Today I am irritated and saddened by one thing....

That is... divorce.

I cringe when I hear about someone getting a divorce or even when I see the word. It gets under my skin, and literally breaks my heart when I hear of marriages falling a part.......

Today while Robbie and I were eating lunch with some friends we started talking about two other couples that are getting divorced. Both marriages were destroyed because of affairs, and one of the couples has a child involved. I was really hurt when I heard all of this. Mainly, because I grew up with both parents divorced and it wasn't a fun ride. Even when I was single, I promised myself that when I got married it would be the first and last time because of what I went through. And even now, the word divorce is not even in our vocabulary. Not even one bit.

I looked up some statistics and this blows my mind. According to divorcerate.org, "It is frequently reported that the divorce rate in America is 50%. This data is not accurately correct, however it reasonably close to actual. The Americans for Divorce Reform estimates that probably 40 or even possibly 50 percent of marriages will end in divorce if current trends continue. Which is actually a projection."

Wow! Did you see that? 50%?????? That is so crazy to me! I may not get along with my husband at times or we may have our "arguments", but never in my mind do I have the thought of leaving him and getting a divorce. Even today after I heard the news about our friends, I just wanted to cry and pray. I know that my God is in control, especially through all of this chaos and confusion. He has the power to bring this percentage down and he can restore broken marriages. These numbers are not permanent and he alone can end this madness. I am going to continue to pray that they go down, because no longer do I want to see children grow up in dysfunctional families because of destroyed marriages. I want to see marriages transformed and people changed! And I know this is possible....

P.S If you are single and you read this. I want to say thank you! I wasn't trying to seclude you by any means in this post. Hopefully by reading this you are encouraged to choose wisely when you choose the man of your dreams! Choose a man who's heart is after God's so that he can lead and guide your marriage! :)

Stomach Bug...Yuck!

2010-04-22T20:56:00.000-07:00

Ok, so yesterday was not a good day for my stomach. The previous night I was up at one in the morning till four with non stop "sickness". I don't want to scare you with the details so let's just say I was sick all around, and couldn't keep anything in. I had come to the conclusion that it had to be food poisoning (considering where we ate), but now I'm sure it's the 24 hour "bug" going around. I was very surprised by my man last night. He stayed up the whole time with me. No joke. Even while I was hovered over the toilet, he held my hair back for me and rubbed my back saying, "Chelsie, your going to be ok." It was very sweet, considering he has a weak stomach. I felt so bad, knowing that he felt sick too, but he insisted on helping. It was so encouraging to see his willingness to stay up, give me medicine, and help me get through it. My whole late night stomach experience reminded me of that quote, "...the things you do for love!" He's great and I am very appreciative! After much rest, pepto bismol, and ginger-ale I am slowly feeling better. I am not sick anymore, but I still have some nausea. Yuck!

Before I end, I'm going to pretend to be your mother and encourage everyone to use lots of germ gel, remember to wash your hands, and be careful who you eat and drink after. Seriously, there really is stomach virus going around. My sister-in-law just called me and said she got it too. It's so crazy how it spreads so fast, so be careful!

P.S I just wanted to mention some blogs that I've enjoyed reading lately and they are:

Lindsey

Oh, and please check out Andrea's page for a great give away! She is giving away three different item, so you don't want to miss out! Thanks! Happy Friday my friends!

Thank you, thank you!

2010-04-22T08:21:00.000-07:00

Thank you Sarah Ann for my lovely new blog page! I love it and you are a wiz at html! lol As you can see my page looks very different, if you are wanting something new and creative, you can check out her page by clicking here! She is lovely and she has just started designing blogs, so go check out her page for me!

Also, I have a new button! For those who have my button, if you could please change it for me, I'd appreciate it. And if your stopping by for the first time, feel free to grab it. Thank you, thank you! :)

Hope you all have a lovely day!

To Love their Husbands Tuesdays: Sweet notes

2010-04-20T15:23:00.001-07:00

I have decided to link up with one of my newest blogging buddies, and give her "To Love their Husbands Tuesdays" a try. Click here to find out what it's all about. The main focus of this fun opportunity is that every Tuesday you post about how you went out of your way to show love to your husband in the past week. So, here's mine..
Since I just started I am going to make this my goal for this week.... As I get up in the morning, I want to do a better job at leaving sweet, encouraging notes for Robbie. I'm usually in a hurry to leave in the mornings and I have just enough time to write jot some things down for Robbie to get done that I didn't have time to. He teases me about it and tells me that every time I write him a note I always have a list to do at the bottom. When I heard this, I felt so bad because I want nothing but to start his day of with something sweet not a honey do list. lol And now, I have decided to change this habit by writing nothing but sweet, encouraging notes. No more lists to do! (at least not in the morning. lol) Lauren also encouraged me to be consistent about praying for Robbie. I want to Robbie's number one prayer warrior, and I want nothing but the best for him. So, I am going to start praying for him especially as I am kissing him goodbye. Hopefully by posting up my goals, I will be reminded to be a better wife!

I am Second

2010-04-19T18:35:00.000-07:00

The young adult ministry, also known as Genesis, that both my husband are heavily involved in has started a new, amazing series called I Am Second.

The website explains that, "I am Second is a movement meant to inspire people of all kinds to live for God and for others. Actors. Athletes. Musicians. Business leaders. Drug addicts. Your next-door neighbor. People like you. The authentic stories on iamsecond.com provide insight into dealing with typical struggles of everyday living. These are stories that give hope to the lonely and the hurting, help from destructive lifestyles, and inspiration to the unfulfilled. You’ll discover people who’ve tried to go it alone and have failed. Find the hope, peace, and fulfillment they found. Be Second."

As you can see it's an amazing movement taken place, and I am so encouraged by all of the videos of the celebrities and athletes. Their stories are truly amazing.. Well, I was asked to share my testimony this past week because our topic for the I Am Second Series was Brokenness and I have a crazy, ridiculous past. I have shared my testimony before in church, so I thought to myself that everything would be fine and I had nothing to worry about. All of sudden, I felt God pulling at my heart to share some things about my past that I have never shared before, so I did. I was really nervous, but the night went very smoothly and I felt God really speaking through me. Which was a blessing, because I thought I was going to burst in tears, but I didn't (thank goodness!). That night after Rodney prayed, I think 8 people came up because they were broken and wanted restoration. It was truly an amazing moment. Just seeing people recommit their lives to Christ, was so exciting. At that moment, they became second, and Christ became first in their lives. Wow!

Even tonight during my small group, we had an open discussion about times where we have experienced brokenness and let me tell you something....God's presence was so thick in my apartment. I was so moved tonight by their stories, their pain, and their experiences. I was so moved in my heart because these girls came out of such horrible experiences and God has made them new. Just like my life, he worked everything out for the good and he has made me new. What a huge blessing that is! I'm sure this seems like a bunch of word vomit to you all, but I can't even think about sleeping tonight without writing my thoughts down. lol. So, thank you if you have read this far! I just want to end with a word of encouragement. If you are ever feeling broken, beat up, insecure, not worthy, or just in pain please know that, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." My God is here for you, always. Did I say always? He loves you and wants the best for you. No matter what your going through, there is someone who understands and who will get you through it. In our lives, what we may think are set backs are really set ups for him! For his glory!

1 Year Ideas!

2010-04-17T19:08:00.001-07:00

Ok, I need some help ladies...My honey and I are going to be celebrating our 1 year anniversary on July 11th. I can't believe it's less than three months away. It is completely bizarre how fast time flies by. I am super excited and I need some help thinking of anniversary ideas? We both want to get away for a couple of days and do something that we will always remember! I was thinking we could do something crazy fun, but sweet at the same time. Robbie and I have been brainstorming and I would love to hear what you think or if you have any suggestions?

1.) Stay at a Bed and Breakfast and go white water rafting, in Asheville, NC (this is my favorite idea so far...)

Robbie has never been white water rafting before but I have and loved it!

2.) Stay in Myrtle Beach and do whatever we want there....Like lay out all day!

3.) Go to the Paula Dean restaurant in Savannah (only because Robbie and I love watching the Food Network..) And we both love southern home cooked meals!

What do you all think? Decisions, decisions.....

Wordless Wednesday

2010-04-14T18:07:00.001-07:00

I took this picture my senior year in high school. Can you believe my hiney was that big? Just kidding. (It's actually a volley ball). I promise! lol

Happy Wednesday!

I'm Back!!

2010-04-13T19:38:00.000-07:00

I'm back!!! Oh, how I have missed my blogging buddies! (lol) For the past week, I decided to take a break from blogging. Sounds crazy, right? I needed to take time to get my heart and mind right. I wanted to take time away from that one thing that fills up my time (blogging), and focus on more important things. Such as my family and my relationship with God. It hasn't been an easy week just so you all know, because I have desperately been wanting to see what everyone has been up to and all.....but now I'm back! I hope I didn't lose any followers or anything. (haha) I will definitely be catching up on everyone's posts! Can't wait....

P.S Robbie and I did something crazy and exciting this weekend. We made our first car purchase! We got me a 2009 Ford Escape! I love it, and it's definitely suitable for a mommy and her babies! (but not yet of course..)

P.S Thank you so much for letting me share my excitement with you. And my crazy husband wanted me to tell you all that he is awesome (hence the new vehicle). He's a goober...

Grab my Button!

2010-04-07T18:20:00.000-07:00

I edited my button! I noticed it was too big, so I made it smaller. Feel free to take it! I'd really appreciate it! If you already have it on your blog then just change the html code! Thanks so much. :)

P.S Please go to my friend Lindsey's blog for an awesome giveaway! She is giving a $50 gift card towards a pair of Toms (For Tom's day without shoes)! I own a pair of TOMS and I love them. For more information about this giveaway, check out her blog at http://lindseysdolcevita.blogspot.com/

My Tiny Two's!!!

2010-04-06T18:48:00.000-07:00

To give you all in idea of my what I do on a daily basis (at my job), I'd like to explain it through a recent picture that was taken.....

This was recently taken last thursday during an Easter egg hunt we planned for the kids. And yes, believe it or not, I work with twenty-four two year olds every day. Did I say every day? (lol) I'm not joking either (as you can see). I have good news though! I'm not the only teacher. There are three more in our class, which is so relieving if you know what I mean. Even though two's are a tough age group to work with, I am very blessed to be where I am. I would be lying to you if I said my job was easy, cause it isn't. I am constantly changing diapers, cleaning accidents, wiping noses, telling the kids "to stop" or "please, don't do that". And it seems like It's nonstop, but I know God has put me where I am for a reason. Every day seems to have it's ups and downs, but when I see the smiles on their faces I know that I am doing my job right. Even today I had a squirt gun and was squirting these kids with water and they were LOVING it! They couldn't stop laughing and I couldn't either. It was so funny!!!

Even though I may want to pull out my hair at times, I am so thankful for these little ones! I just had to show you all this picture!

And just so all of you know, I have gotten ALOT of experience and preparation for mommy-hood while working with these kids. In fact I am more than ready! (haha) At least, I think I am.

Curly or Straight?

2010-04-04T18:45:00.000-07:00

Curly hair or straight hair? Does anyone else have this dilemma? I was born with natural, brown curly hair. My hair went straight for some odd reason when I was in middle school, but when I got in high school it started getting curlier. Never have I dyed it, or have gotten a perm. I've always wanted natural looking hair. But now I am faced with this dilemma? Maybe, you curly girls out there will understand. When I wake up in the morning, I find myself deciding whether I want to straighten my hair or just wear it curly. Not that I don't like my hair being curly, it's just I feel prettier with my hair straight (at times). Although, it does take a lot of work! So, I'm just curious.....If you could change your hair to any style, color, or cut would you? If so, what would it be? I am very curious and excited to hear your thoughts!

A Weekend of Bliss......

2010-04-03T18:44:00.000-07:00

This weekend has been very enjoyable so far because:

(Good) Friday:

- Robbie had a date day planned for us and we headed downtown to walk down King street.

-Had lunch at Jim and Nicks...I love their cheese biscuits!

-Went to the new Waterfront park in Mt. Pleasant where we threw the frisbee and took funny pictures.

-Begged Robbie to buy me some shorts at Old Navy and he did..lol

-Had a girl's night and saw Last Song.

Saturday:

-Finally went to Adopt-a-block at the Dreamcenter (Seacoast Church), where we had an Easter egg hunt for kids in our block and blessed a family with diapers.

-Layed out with my mother-in-law.

-Watched Father of the Bride and balled my eyes out and then watched the video from my wedding. I was having a sappy moment. haha

-Went to McAllisters with my man, and grabbed Coldstone.

-Went to look at new cars for me (It was so fun and I felt like such an adult.)

And tomorrow is Easter!! I love Easter! It a holiday devoted to my biggest love, Jesus Christ. This weekend I have been reminded about what he did for us on the cross. He has changed my live and the lives around me because of his grace, love, and forgiveness. Because of this, I desperately want others to experience his love and salvation. It's my life goal....

Isaiah 53:5-6

"But he was wounded for our transgressions;

he was crushed for our iniquities;

upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace,

and with his stripes we are healed.

All we like sheep have gone astray;

we have turned-every one- to his own way;

and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all."

Isaiah 49:16

"Behold, I have engraved you on the palms of my hand."

I hope you all have enjoyed your weekend and I wish you all a lovely Easter!!!! I look forward to reading your posts!

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-31T17:48:00.001-07:00

It's kind of late to be posting for Wordless Wednesday, but I didn't want to miss out on the fun, considering it's my first time doing it. So, here goes.....

I know this isn't a very interesting picture, but we purchased this table TODAY! And can you believe it was only $149.99 at Fred's? We were going to get the same one at Walmart for $249, but then an awesome friend of mine told me about this great deal. I've always wanted a high bistro table, but couldn't find one anywhere at a reasonable price. Even though, I wish it was a cherry wood, I'm content with what we found. In fact, I am so excited! I can't wait to have dinner on it.....

Thanks for letting me share about my purchase (lol). I just couldn't resist. Happy Wednesday to you all.....

P.S I guess this post wasn't exactly wordless. haha Oops!!

Miracles can happen...

2010-03-29T19:04:00.000-07:00

I was going through the pictures on my camera and came across the one's of my nephew. And it reminded me how thankful I am for him. Let me tell you why. His name is Jayden and he was born on July 17, 2005. My sister found out during her pregnancy that he was going to be born with Gastroschisis. Gastroschisis is a birth defect in which an infant's intestines stick out of the body through a defect on one side of the umbilical cord.

As soon as Jayden was born he had to go through immediate surgery. I felt so helpless seeing him with so many cords attached to his body. Right from the get go the doctors told my sisters that he would have many health problems and would eventually have to go through many procedures to keep him alive. He was given a feeding tube through his stomach, and they created a tube straight to his heart. They said he wouldn't make it past two, but that was definitely not the case for Jayden. Let me introduce to you my nephew who is now 4 years old.

Isn't he cute? haha. You see miracles can happen. And I truly believe Jayden is one of them. I am so thankful for Jayden. He can play and have fun like a normal four year old. He loves cars, and loves to give knucks. He still to have a feeding tube at night, and he has to watch out for blood clots but he's not letting his health complications stop him from being an average boy. He is a fighter and always will be. And he's completely adorable. I am really excited because my sister is expecting again and it's going to be awesome to see him as a big brother!!

Thanks for letting me share. :)

Recipe: Tuscan Italian Tilapia!

2010-03-28T11:09:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted any recipes up yet on my blog so I thought I'd start with one that my wonderful husband mastered up in our kitchen, we call it Tuscan Italian Tilapia. I absolutely love tilapia! It is really healthy for you and extremely easy to make. Sometimes I even pre-cook fillets for my lunch during the week. Here is the recipe!

Tuscan Italian Tilapia

-Tilapia Fillets (You can get these just about anywhere)

-Tuscan Italian Dressing (made by Kraft)

-Cajun seasoning

-Garlic powder

-Season All

-Salt and Pepper

Preheat the oven to 400 degrees. Cover the tilapia fillets in a thin layer of the Tuscan Italian Dressing on both sides. Then add all the seasonings to both sides of the fillets. To get more flavor out of the fillets, add more Season All. Cook on aluminum foil in a pan for 10 minutes and enjoy!

It's as easy as that and tastes so delicious!

Before...

....and after!

I hope some of you try this recipe and let me know what you think!!! And for those of you who follow my blog I have something for you! I created a button for my blog so feel free to put it on your page!

Festivities and Fun!

2010-03-27T11:58:00.001-07:00

Today my man and I headed to the Azeala Flower town Festival in Summerville. It was so nice outside and there was literally thousands of people. I mean thousands! The booths were awesome and so was the food! Robbie and I pigged out and got some stuff we really both love. Here they are...

I got this cute purse from this hippie booth. It's very different and cute, and I really want to pull it off (lol)! It's really nifty and comfortable. You just put it over your head and it rests on your shoulder. I love it!

I also got two cute rings! They are made out of glass. My camera wouldn't take a good picture of my rings, so I just uploaded a picture from the internet of what they look like.

And we also found these nifty hang up things for our apartment. I'm not sure what you call them. They were only $1.75 each! I'm putting them on the fridge, until we find a better place for them.

And last but not least, my man got what he wanted! A turkey leg....(haha) It was my first time trying it, and it was so good! Who doesn't love some southern food? haha.

Hope you all have a lovely weekend and as always thank you for checking out my blog!!!!!

An Encouraging Word...

2010-03-24T16:35:00.000-07:00

Happy Wednesday to you ladies!

Today has been beautiful. Here in Charleston, we had a high of 75 and it was so refreshing from the cold weather that we have been having off and on. So I decided during my break today that I wanted to eat lunch in my car under this tree where there is lots of shade. It was so refreshing. I ate lunch while reading my Beth Moore book and fell across a lovely verse that I really want to share.

Isaiah 33:6 "...and he will be the stability of your times, abundance of salvation, wisdom, and knowledge; the fear of the Lord is Zion's treasure."

I loved the beginning of this verse. I'm not going through a rough time or anything like that but I was so encouraged by this. God is our stability through everything; all of "your times". Just by knowing that I have a person in my life that will never let me down, never leave me, or never intentionally hurt me is so rejuvenating. I can depend on him and he wants the best for me. He gives me an abundance of his salvation, wisdom, and knowledge, in which I really need! All I want to say back is thank you, thank you, thank you! lol For the last part of the verse, I did something a little different while journaling: "...abundance of salvation, wisdom, and knowledge; the fear of the Lord is [Chelsie's] treasure."

When you personalize a verse, and remind yourself that God is speaking directly towards you it seems to change a lot, especially our outlook. I am so encouraged today! Hope everyone has a lovely night! Be back soon...

Single Sentence Sunday!!!!

2010-03-21T12:18:00.000-07:00

I decided to start doing Single Sentence Sunday made by one of my very good friends Sarah Rogers. You should try it too! You can hop over to her page by clicking her name above to get the link. I'm very excited about it, so here goes....

"If you believe in something passionately, people will follow you."

-Donald Miller

-Hope everyone has a relaxing, wonderful Sunday!

16 and Pregnant

2010-03-20T10:55:00.000-07:00

Wow. I am literally in tears while writing this. For the past hour, I've been watching 16 and Pregnant on MTV, which is so odd because I never watch anything on MTV and now I am completely shocked. My heart is just breaking for these girls and especially these babies. I was watching in episode about a girl in high school who decided to have unprotected sex with her boyfriend and she became pregnant. Throughout the whole episode this girl couldn't decide on keeping the baby or giving the baby up for adoption. The young girl and her boyfriend were fighting the whole time, and he wanted to keep the baby but she was undecided. It was terrible. Finally, she has the baby and decides to give him up for adoption. They even had an adoption ceremony which was really sad, but sweet. My heart just breaks because sex is so common now for young teenagers. Many of them don't understand that they are playing around with the life of a potential baby. Thankfully, the young girl on the show gave her baby up and he will have amazing, mature parents that will give him the proper care he needs. I just hope and pray that this world, especially media doesn't get so focused on sex more than it already has. I'm honestly thinking about what is going to be exposed to my children one day. I was reminded today of my past. I unfortunately made a mistake in ninth grade, where I could've gotten pregnant. Thank you Jesus, that I didn't. I did face many consequences, and got past a lot of guilt only because of God's grace. But as I think about it now I was not even ready to be a mom. Who is at that age?

The show really got to me today, and I had huge urge to blog about it. I just don't want to see anymore young teens making decisions that they can't even take responsibility for. I want to see change. Don't you? Call me old fashion, but I truly believe in my heart that God intended sex for marriage. I can't even imagine how it's going to feel when Robbie and I have our first child and we get to rock him or her in our arms. I bet it's going to be so surreal and amazing knowing that it was in God's timing. It's going to feel so right...

P.S Please check out my friend, Sarah's blog! She is giving away earrings to encourage others to get involved with the issue of human trafficking. It's an awesome give away, so please check it out!

(http://www.sarahannrogers.com)

2010-03-17T19:17:00.000-07:00

Outreach.

What do you think of when you see this word?

Do you think of missions? The homeless? Starving children? What comes across your mind as you think about outreach? When I think about outreach, I think about people experiencing Christ through others. Over the past year I have become experienced outreach more than I ever have in my life. I have been pushed greatly towards outreach through one of my friend Sarah and her husband, through my experiences at the Dream center (Seacoast), and through Genesis. For the past month, Genesis (our church) has been going through an Outreach series, so Sarah and I decided to get our small groups involved. After much discussion, my group decided on writing thank you letters to soldiers in the Army. There is a ranch in Colorado that soldiers go to after being injured. Some of these soldiers struggle suicidal thoughts and depression because of their injuries. We decided to send them letters to encourage and thank them for everything that they have done for our country.

This past Monday as my small group was decorating their cards I was in awe of what was taking place. I was so encouraged and happy to see their hearts towards these men. Then and there I saw my small group being God's hands and feet extended. It clicked with all of us that it doesn't take much to show God's love. I hope and pray that our cards encourage these soldiers. I am very excited to see more outreach take place in the next couple of weeks. I hope this post is encouraging to you, knowing that it doesn't take much to show God's love. It can be through a smile, an encouraging word, a free meal, or even a thank you card.

Last, but not least...I would like to ask for some opinions! I want to gather more ideas about some future outreach projects that my small group and I can do. Feel free to suggest anything! Thanks so much. :) Enjoy our pictures.

Pennies=FUN!

2010-03-13T13:54:00.000-08:00

Hello, bloggers.. I've got a question! Any of you ever throw your spare change into something hoping that you can spend it on something crazy later? Well, Robbie and I do. We had been throwing our change in one of the vases from my wedding, and we finally cashed it in. Robbie had guessed $35 and I said $20, but we were both wrong..

Take a guess. How much do you think it is? (you will find out at the end of this post. If you get it right, you don't get a prize or anything but you become more awesome! haha)

Robbie and I were so excited and surprised after finding out the real total. We ended up using it towards our date night on Friday. We decided to treat ourselves to McAllisters, bought a bunch of candy at Target, and we saw the movie, Alice and the Wonderland (which was weirdly, good). It was nice to not have to spend any of our real money, if you know what I mean. We are going to continue to save and go crazy with our change hopefully very soon.

The final amount of our change was $57! Good job to those who guessed right; your awesome (and the rest of you are too). Feel free to share what you have splurged on with your spare change. I would love to know!

Wonderful Wednesdays....

2010-03-10T17:37:00.001-08:00

If I were to say that I have been crazy busy for the past couple of weeks would be a huge understatement. Literally, Robbie and I have been going nonstop. Sometimes I ask myself, how did I ever get committed to so much? Do you ever feel like that? Like you never get a break? I love everything that Robbie and I are involved in but sometimes it just gets crazy. I've noticed that being married to man who coordinates ministry is very time consuming, yet awesome too.

Luckily, there are Wednesdays! Robbie and I have made a commitment to make Wednesdays our nights. I love getting off of work on a Wednesday and knowing that we have NO plans that night. Our Wednesdays consist of us watching our favorite shows and I am able to finally do some cooking!

I am so thankful for the job that Robbie and I both have. And I'm especially thankful for the ministry he has put us in. Without Genesis and all of it's events, I don't think we would be where we are today (honestly!), but I can't say that I don't need breaks once in awhile.

All in all, I am so thankful for my Wednesdays. It's the one day where I get time with my husband, relax, and even blog a little. Thank you Wednesdays, you rock!

What about you? What do you love, or need?

He Can Do Immeasurably More!

2010-03-07T12:11:00.000-08:00

This past Friday I had to go to a conference for my job at Northwood Academy. Every year, the preschool workers have to have a certain amount of DSS training so we headed up to Greenville on Friday and stayed overnight. Saturday morning we attended the first seminar. The theme of the whole conference was Beyond. They used Ephesians 3:20, "Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever. Amen." I fell in love with the theme because when it comes to being a teacher, we need God's power in us-otherwise you will go crazy! Anyways...(back to what I was saying) We had the choice of picking the classes we wanted to attend all day. I chose Turning Trash into Treasure, Parent's of the 21st Century, and Start with the Heart-Then Train the Brain. My favorite class was the last one and let me tell you why. The class was about truly caring for your students (and children) that you deal with. She said, "Students don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." She gave us a quote that I will never forget, "Attitudes are contagious, Is yours worth catching?" It just got me thinking about what kind of teacher am I? Am I one who is patient, caring, and attentive to these children? Or am I one who just works to make money, and I don't really care about the well being of these kids? She also said, "Our reactions is what make the difference." And I don't know about you, but this hit home with me. At times, I dread going to work. Working with children (and if your a mommy you may relate ) is not the easiest thing to do. It requires God-given grace, love, and patience on a daily basis and that's what I need to gain more of. In order to lead these 2's closer to God and to leave them impacted I must have a positive, loving attitude. My reactions towards them are key.

After attending this conference, I was both motivated and encouraged to become a better teacher (and a mommy in the future). I want to love these children as much as I can and look for the best in them everyday even if it gets tough.

And lastly, for those of you who are Education majors this may be encouraging. She gave us five foundational beliefs when it comes to children and students.

1. Caring is Key

2. Conflict is Inevitable

3. Behavior can be changed

4. Good behavior must be taught

5. Good discipline is well timed.

I wish......

2010-03-05T15:52:00.000-08:00

This morning one of my good friend's dad died. Don't you just hate that feeling when you hear news like that? I found out at work, and all I wanted to do was give her a huge hug. I wanted her to know that all was going to be ok, and that she was going to get through it. I then thought about how much I wish I had been there more for her. I wish I had called her more. I wish I would have asked her to lunch more often. Do you ever get that feeling? When something tragic happens and you are filled with regret? I know that all I can do right now is to just be a friend, but my heart breaks for her family. Please be praying for them. Her dad died of brain cancer, but he fought a good fight. And he died peacefully. He is in heaven, and we can rejoice. I'v never had a relative die in my family or friend that I was close to die, but I couldn't imagine how it would make me feel. Like I said please be praying her family. Her name is Kathryn and her dad is Allen. Thank you so much.

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Cabin Retreat 2010

2010-03-03T16:49:00.000-08:00

Every year Robbie and I get a chance to go on a cabin retreat with the Genesis team. If some of you don't know what Genesis is, it's a 18-20 something college that we are both involved in. Well, like I said every year we head up with the team (the leaders) and we stay in a Cabin in Tennessee. This year we stayed in Gatlinburg,TN. We left on a Wednesday and stayed till Saturday. Thursday we went shopping, played laser tag, and on Friday we hiked up a beautiful, snowy mountain. It was such a peaceful mini vacation. I love hanging out with the team and just spending time being crazy. Oh, and I forgot to mention that we poured cold water on the guys in the hot tub! That was a huge highlight for me. haha! The devotions and fellowship during the trip were really encouraging for me personally. Friday night, Rodney prayed over everyone and everyone got personal (yes, tears were shed. lol). I was really interested to see what God was doing in their lives. The trip overall was really exciting and fun. I felt like this trip re-energized the team with a lot of passion and direction.

I feel very blessed to be a part of Genesis. Ever since I walked into the doors of Genesis almost 3 years ago, I immediately felt something different about the place. And now I know what that it is. It's God. He's clearly moving through Rodney, the worship, the leaders, and especially through the relationships being made. It's been a blessing to be a part of small groups, and to have made new, lasting relationships with so many girls. I am excited about where God is leading Robbie and I, the core team, and Genesis as a whole!

I am Clothed!

2010-02-28T09:44:00.000-08:00

Beth Moore has been my ultimate hero for the past month. I've never read any of her books before but I recently started reading her newest one, So Long Insecurity. And oh, it is good! I am so thankful that there is finally a book out there that gets to the bottom of what many women have been struggling with for years.

I've learned lately that even though I am insecure in areas of my life, I do not need to be held back by my insecurities. I am free! Now it is easier said than done, but we are ultimately free from condemnation of any sort because of the death of Christ. Let me go into more detail....

In chapter 8, Beth Moore explains that when it comes to insecurity, "...we will either give away to it continually or try to stifle it." She goes on and explains that those who stifle insecurities do so often because of triggers. For some there is that one "thing" that happens and it all of a sudden triggers an insecurity from the depths of our soul. For me, when this happens I often withdraw from a situation and meditate on it for hours. When it comes to Robbie, I even say and do things in front of him that are plain foolish. Call me crazy, but I'm not perfect. (haha) Beth Moore spoke the truth in this next quote: "No matter how big of a fool we make of ourselves on the outside, we feel like a bigger one on the inside." Amen! Anybody with me?? She also said, "The cycle begins to break when even though we may still feel insecure, we make a very deliberate choice not to act on that feeling." Oh, if this was easier said than done, but it's the truth. How much better would it be if we stop letting our insecurity affect our actions? We would no longer feel foolish, right?

My favorite part of this chapter is when Beth highlights Proverbs 31:25, "She is clothed with dignity and strength." Like Beth Moore had said, "In order to heal from insecurity we must reclaim our God-given dignity!" This is so true! If I were to start believing that I had God-given dignity I am so sure my thoughts and actions would start to change. I want to end on two quotes (thank you for staying with me.)

"When you and I are triggered to expose the most vulnerable, broken parts of ourselves through a rush of insecurity, we can train ourselves to immediately recite this truth to our souls: "It's okay. I'm completely clothed".

"We wouldn't have to mask our insecurity with pride if we knew we had the right to dignity because God himself gave it to us!"

I know this was a long post, but I hope that those who are reading feel a sigh of relief. No longer should your insecurities (if you have them) hold you back anymore! You are free and you have God given dignity. No longer shall we feel overexposed by our insecurity, because we are clothed! For those who are like me and lack security, let's make it our goal to start praying and to take action right now. We can do it.....

Phillipians 4:13- I can do all things in Christ, who strengthens me.

When was the last time you.......

2010-02-25T16:23:00.001-08:00

As of this moment, I am on a couch in a cabin in Gatlinburg, TN with the Genesis core team. And let me tell you that so far it has been a blast. Today we visited Gatlinburg, shopped around, played laser tag (where I got hit hard in the head), and now we are just hanging out waiting for dinner to be ready. I love trips like these because it's such a relaxing yet enjoyable time. It's nice to hang out with the team and just have fun being ourselves. I want to highlight on an experience I've had here so far and that was last night. Last night, Rodney started off a devotional with us and asked the question, "When was the last time you experienced God?". He had everyone share and I shared about the moment I had with my mom at Northwood's annual worship night. I shared how I was in awe of God, because my mom was in the same room as me worshiping God; praising him! And if some of you know my past, that was so awesome for me. It reminded me of God's glorious grace just knowing that she is now saved and forgiven! What really got me last night was when everyone else was sharing there experiences. I loved hearing how other people were affected by God. Even in ways you wouldn't think. I loved it.

I started thinking again about that question this morning. I started thinking,"Man, I want to have more real encounters with God?" I want to feel him, see him, and know him more on a deeper level not just periodically but all the time. It's got me thinking and it's challenging me. My question and challenge for you is....When was your last encounter with God and how often do you encounter him? It's challenging...huh?